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They make me happy

::Blue Mason jars
::Hearing your baby’s heartbeat for the first time
::Hot cookies, fresh out of the oven
::smiles from strangers

::Curtains blowing in the wind
::Elderly couples holding hands
::The smell of baking bread
::Your kids putting away the dishes without being asked

::Cats peeking out windows
::Free starts of Perennials
::Those perfectly worn in jeans
::A freshly made bed

::Window seats
::Spontaneous road trips
::Popcorn and hot chocolate at high school football games
::Summer cookouts

::A room With a View
::A garden fresh tomato
::Unsolicited kid kisses
::Getting flowers from the one you love, “just because”

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hats that mom wears

If I were creating a business card for my job as a mom, I’d have to list the following titles as well:  Social Director, Cook, Cleaning Lady, Chauffeur, Nurse/Safety Officer, and Chief Communicator of my family. Being a mom is not a simple task. If you think about the many hats moms wear, it’s no surprise many of us are dragging each day. Here’s a bit more about the roles I have as the mom of my family.

Social Director: This job requires me to plan and keep track of the family’s social outings. A sub-role of this job is appointment setter – you know, making all the doctor, dentist, and other medical appointments. I never knew that being a mom also meant being an administrative assistant!

Cook: I conjure up breakfast, lunch, dinner and snacks. I arrange them on plates and present them with a smile

Cleaning Lady: You can’t just ignore the mess.

Chauffeur: Self-explanatory. I drive my minivan (the one I said I’d never be caught dead in, but now consider the 5th member of our family) to all of the social outings and appointments I’ve set up. Like a postal worker, this job requires me to perform it through wind, rain, sleet, hail, snow and possible tornadoes.

Nurse/Safety Officer: This job requires me to have a full stock of safety items such as ice packs, ointments, band-aids, teething rings, disinfecting wipes, and even chapstick.

Chief Communicator: In this role, I am responsible for encouraging discussions between family members, deciphering foreign languages (toddler/infant speak), and even teaching some members how to talk.

No wonder why I am so tired all the time – that’s a lot of jobs to complete successfully! And I know as my tenure in motherhood continues, the list of roles will get longer (and in case you haven’t already noticed, unlike teachers, moms are tenured from the day that baby comes home!). After reading this list, I have come to the decision that I am not actually qualified to fill the position of mom. Good thing I am in good with “the boss!”

The next time someone tells you being a mom is an easy job (and I especially hear this comment about SAHMs), tell them to give it a try for a day (and night if you have a baby who still wakes during the nighttime). I bet they will fall flat on their face from exhaustion by noon!

(There are many other roles I have not mentioned because a post listing them all would probably take up 3 pages, and what mom has time to read that?!)

What hats do you wear as the mom in your family? If you’re a dad reading this, what are your roles vs. your wife’s roles?

What a week

We have had a lot going on this past weekend and week. I quess it started Saturday when we got up early and went to the lake for our little cousins Gray’s b-day party.. Michell(his mom) and Joe(his dad) rented this 16ft water slide, they had the boat out for tubing, and a jet ski for riding. The kids had a blast. Lexie was all about going tubing.. I though she wouldn’t like it, but she went and she loved it.  Connor did his own thing as usual. Although I did get him on the boat.  He liked it unless it went fast. They played hard Saturday all day in a nd out the water. We ended up crashing the night at the lake house. So they went to bed around 10. Joe and Chris decided to rent the slide for another day. So, once the kids went top bed it was the adults turn to have fun on the waterslide.  So we had at it. I don’t remember what time we actually ended up going to bed. Got up Sunday morning. The kids played hard.. Robert played hard.. We all played hard all day.. Roberts family cooked dinner, fried cat fish, shrimp, hush puppies, french fries, and some other stuff. They brought it down. We ate, let the kids play some more, then headed out.  We are house sitting for Joe and Michelle. So we came here Sunday night. Monday I worked all day and Rabbit had some stuff to do. Tuesday I worked all day and rabbit had some more stuff to do.  Are camper was delievered to us on Tuesday evening. So we had to go deal with that. Wensday and Thursday Rabbit and I both worked. Today we are both working again.. lol..

I was suppose to go to the Zoo today for a School meet and greet with Connections Academy for Connor, but for some reason I thought it was on the 26th so I didn’t take today off.

The Art of Being Naked

The Girl

She has dirty blond hair, a seductive smile, and the most engaging set of hazel green eyes he has ever seen.  It’s the kind of engaging he can’t ignore… the kind that makes him want to engage too.  Because she’s mysterious.  And he’s  curious.  And he needs to know more.

Yet, he does his best to avoid making eye contact.  So he stares down at the pool table and pretends to study his opponent’s next move.  But only long enough for her to look the other way, so he can once again catch a glimpse of magnificence.

He does this, not because she intimidates him, but because he thinks she may be the girl Chad met last night.  A wild night that, he said, “involved two bottles of port wine, chocolate cake, and sweaty bed sheets.”

Then, just as her eyes unexpectedly met his, his opponent groans, “It’s been your turn for like five minutes.  Ya planning on going sometime today?”  And she walks gracefully away.

So he continues to wonder… “Is she the port wine and chocolate cake girl?  Gosh, she doesn’t look like that kind of girl.”  But he doesn’t wonder too long because Chad enters the room and says, “Marc, there’s someone I want you to meet.”  So he follows him into the kitchen and they bump right into her.  “Oh, Angel,” Chad says.  “This is my buddy, Marc.”

And He smiles ear to ear and chuckles…

Because she’s not the port wine and chocolate cake girl.  But also because he spent the last twenty minutes thinking about the port wine, and the chocolate cake, and the sweaty bed sheets.

The Dance

Hours later, the party begins winding down.  But the band is still playing, the two painters who have been painting a wall mural all evening are still painting, and they are still dancing.

“Are you tired?” he asks.

“No,” Angel says.  “Dancing is my outlet.  When I dance, I transcend myself and the doubts that sometimes prevent me from being me.  This evening has been enchanting, just dancing with you and being me.”

So he twirls her around.  And the drummer keeps drumming.  The guitarist keeps strumming.  The singer keeps singing.  The painters keep painting.  And now they are the only ones dancing.

As they continue to dance, she says, “I feel as if we’re naked.  And not just you and me, but the drummer, the guitarist, the singer, and the painters too.  Everyone left in this room is naked… naked and free.”

He smiles and tells her that He agrees.  “We are naked.  We are free.”

As he knows they don’t have to take their clothes off to be naked.  Because moments of passion flow into them like port wine flows into chocolate cake.  And if they let them, these moments can expose them completely, and continuously.  And create climaxes that don’t even require sex.

Because a true climax has little to do with orgasm, and everything to do with passion, love, and devotion.  In the same way, nakedness has little to do with how much clothing one wears, and everything to do with one’s awareness in a given moment of time…  An unfettered awareness that frees their mind and allows them to truly live the moment for all it’s worth.

The Climax

After a few more songs, Angel asks if he would like to join her out on the front porch where it’s quieter.  “Just so we can talk about life,” she says.

He gives her a little wink.  “I love life in this crazy world!  It is crazy, isn’t it?”

She smiles.  “Yeah, a world in which we can be naked with our clothes on and experience continuous climax without intercourse.”

“Because instead we can achieve both with music, or paint, or dance, or any form of avid self-expression,” he adds.

“You got it.  Even the sincerity in this conversation is beginning to work for me,” she says as they step out the front door and into the moonlight.

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